♥ Ru on Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Lesson Learnt

The lesson I've learnt today is that we should support our loved ones in whatever they are doing. Let them choose what they want to do and let them do what they love to do. Forcing our decision upon them will lead to 2 outcome, either they go against us, or they will just take our decision. If they do take up our decision 'cos we force them to, they might resent us one day if our decision is not what they really want in life and it didn't really work out for them.

Unfortunately, none of my loved ones understand that. So I guess, the thing I can do is to do whatever I like and continue to believe that their objections in life is always due to their love for me. It has nothing to do with my decisions in life being right or not. After all, I can only succeed in life if I persisted in doing what I love to do and enjoy doing. Never give up!!